Even for New England standards. You know, the bone-chilling,
freeze-your-face-off, wear-two-layers-of-wool-socks, can’t-bear-to-be-outside
kind of cold. When my iPhone
temperature app tells me it’s 3 degrees outside (and we’re not talking in
Celsius), I start to question my sanity in living here. To be honest, around this time every
year, I question my sanity.
You’ve got to realize, I grew up in the hot, humid,
languorous deep south. Where
spring and summers regularly reach the 90s with close to 100% humidity (is that
even possible?), and this sultry weather stretches from April to October. A “cold winter day” might be a day in
the 40s. Snow happens about every
decade or so, a light dusting that sends cars spinning out of control on the
highways and everyone home for a “snow day.”
So imagine the weather culture shock of moving here, for
seemingly…forever. It’s not just
the temperature, people, it’s the associated lifestyle, complete with winter
gear. When I met my husband
(b&r here), he set me straight in my southerner ways. Why was I so cold all the time? It turns out, I didn’t have the
required gear—not just any coat, hat, mittens, boots—it was a whole sub-culture
of brands, materials, fabrics...After more than five years of winter re-education, I am
completely outfitted: the full-body length down parka with hood, ski mittens,
two pairs of snow boots, one completely waterproof (for those “wintry mix”
days), thick cashmere scarf and wooly hat. I am completely unrecognizable when I go out, covered from
head to toe. And then with that
wind chill last week, bringing temperatures to -20 below, I threw on another
layer (or two) and wrapped another thick wool scarf around my face. I was a veritable Eskimo bundle, with
only my eyes peering out into the icy cold.
My husband is a perennial optimist. He loves the autumn—the fall colors,
the briskness in the air, the anticipation of the holiday season. I just get grouchy, because to me, fall means there’s at least six months of cold and bundling up to come. He loves the winter, and often extols
the beautiful cold winter days or even the beauty of a blizzard. He never quite got my discontent, until
I explained to him recently, “look, just imagine spending the rest of your life
in New Orleans, anticipating living in six months of hot, sticky, humid weather
every year.” To a guy who gets
sweaty and uncomfortable just remembering a recent trip to my parents house in
the “less hot” September (daily temps in the 90s), it finally sunk in. “Oh geez,” was all he said, and I could
swear I saw beads of perspiration gather on his brow.
So I look at my kids, who have spent their entire lives in
this icebox, and I wonder what their climate inclinations will be. For now, they don’t mind getting
bundled (little miss in particular loves the whole “dress-up” accessories
aspect of it), and they love the cold, because that means snow, and with that
comes fun and frolic, snow angels, and snow balls...but last week was the first
time I heard them both complain that it was cold. To be honest, it was pretty f#$%^&^*cold, even for this particular icebox. And to believe I was complaining that it was 50 degrees a couple of weeks ago while we on vacation in New Orleans? For
shame.
Because quite honestly, you know that your standards have
changed, when today seems balmy in the 30s. You might as well call it a heat wave.
